Stories from the WISE Community: Lilith
My name is Lilith, but most people call me Lily (or Lili). I grew up in the beautiful suburb of Emerald in Melbourne’s east.
After leaving high school, I worked as a Support Worker for over three years. I then became a program facilitator for people with intellectual disabilities to support individuals living out of their family homes to build and learn life skills.
My current role is Employee Support Officer at WISE Employment’s Social Enterprise, Clean Force. So far, I’ve learnt so much about the NDIS and how to support people in the workplace, which is very different to my previous roles.
I’ve really enjoyed spending time with my employees and getting to know what they love in life and how I can best support them in the workplace. I also enjoy networking with different sections of the organisation and other organisations.
I have struggled with anxiety and depression from a young age due to bullying. This has allowed me to relate to the individuals I support and my family and friends. Since I was 7, I have supported a parent with Multiple Sclerosis, which was what sparked my interest to join the Disability and Community Service sector.
I have been a part of the LGBTQIA+ community since I was 15. I have always felt an attraction between people of all genders, so I knew I wasn’t straight from a young age. But I never really ‘came out’ as bisexual/pansexual, as I think I was lucky enough to have a supportive family.
My experience with mental illness and supporting a parent with a disability has taught me a lot about myself. I’ve been lucky enough to get the mental health support I need and explore different therapies that work for me. I’m passionate about my respective roles in the Disability and Community Sectors. As a result, I find it easier to relate to my team and customers.
In my spare time, I’m a singer-songwriter and use my experiences of mental health, sexuality and disability in my lyrics. I’ve released three singles, which have been recognised worldwide, including on Triple J for International Women’s Day in 2021.
My recent single is called ‘Anxiety’. I’ve had great feedback from people saying it’s relatable and helped them understand themselves and their symptoms and feel heard.
My advice to others is that ‘you are not alone’. As much as that is a cliché, there are people around you who will support you with whatever your struggles are. Sexuality, mental illness and disability are all common struggles we face. So if you have access to a support network that will help you regain access to the simple things in life, go for it. We are here to support you.
All photos supplied by Lilith.